Past or future?

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

I once heard it said that the rear view mirror is tiny compared to the windscreen of your car. This is because we need to look where we are going, more than where we have been.

That resonated with me when I heard it. It just made sense because I cannot change the past. Because of this I tend to review things I have done and then move on. I like to quickly think over what I did during the day, learn from it and then file it away.

I guess as a Christ follower this sits well with my faith too. The Apostle Paul talked about the past in his “pressing on” passage in Philippians 3:12-14 NLT…

“I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. [13] No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, [14] I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.”

Paul was more interested in knowing Christ, growing in his faith and fulfilling God’s purposes in his life. If that was the Apostle Paul’s focus, it is good enough for me too. I want to know Christ, grow and fulfil my purpose too.

Does this mean I do not look back at all? Definitely not. We all need to reflect on the things we have done. Maybe we can learn something, grow, and maybe do things differently next time.

Ultimately for me though, it goes back to the size of the rear view mirror compared to size of our car windscreens. Looking forward is way more important.

Feeling nostalgic?

What makes you feel nostalgic?

This is an interesting question. What makes you feel nostalgic? To be honest I had to look up the word again to make sure I was on the right track. You will be pleased to know I was!

Nostalgia is a “feeling of pleasure and also slight sadness when you think about things that happened in the past”. This is a feeling I have every now and then. Especially when I see things from the past.

1. Old photos are things that can make me feel nostalgic. Especially old family photos and ones of when my kids were young. That takes me back. Photos of old cars I have owned or old houses I have lived often take me back too.

2. Old songs are another thing that can take me back. We have a local radio station that plays hits from the 80s and 90s. Often I know all the lyrics and I sing along. I get mentally transported back to my old house, my old job or people I used to know at the time. I heard Pat Benatar’s song All Fired Up the other day and it took me back to sprint training sessions on my bike!

3. Old furniture is something that takes me back to old times. I saw an old dressing table that my Nanna had in someone’s home recently. It took me back to the 70s. We have an old kitchen table and chair set from my grand parents when they were married. Some days I close my eyes and I can see it in their dining room.

There are other things I guess that take me back in an instant, but these are the main ones. It is funny how things can take you back in an instant to times past. It does not take much and we are back there mentally.

Sometimes my nostalgia can make me feel sad as the true definition of the word suggests. It makes me long for times gone by. Mostly though, I am happy to be reminded of the good times and the people I have known and loved in the past.

Men who have influenced my life

Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

This is a really great question. I have had a few really positive men in my life over the years, so I cannot just narrow it down to one.

1. My grandfather Bob – He was there for me when my Mum and Dad split up when I was 8. He passed away when I was 13, but that 5 years really helped me a lot. Even though he was in his late 70s we played a lot of cricket and footy together.

2. A workmate Graham – He was a nice middle aged Christian man who used to talk to me about Jesus and pray for me at work. He eventually invited me to church and a Bible study at his home. He was the one that gave the tract that led me to Jesus!

3. Pastor Andrew – He impacted my life spiritually more than most. He challenged me in a positive way to take my faith seriously. He recognised my gifts and gave me opportunities to preach my first sermon. This changed my life and opened the door to ministry.

4. My father-in-law Pete – Pete was a good man. He drove a truck for his job and knew how to build things. I remember building a patio at my house. We just talked all day as we worked. Pete had a love for nature, reading, singing and more. In many ways he became the Father I never knew. Now he is gone to be with the Lord, I think about him often.

These are four men that really impacted my life. I could not imagine where my life would be without them. In their own way they have each encouraged me to be a good man and be a blessing to others.

I would like to visit Melbourne

The MCG holds about 100,000 people and hosts some of Australia’s biggest sporting events.

What cities do you want to visit?

I would love to visit the city of Melbourne. I live on the West Coast of Australia and Melbourne is “over east” for us.

I would love to go and watch a game of AFL at the Melbourne Cricket Ground or the “G” as it is known.

I would like to go and watch two big Melbourne teams playing against each other. Just to experience a big crowd would be awesome.

My wife has relatives in Melbourne so we could visit them at the same time. It would be great to look around and ride their trams too.

Watching a game at the G is a bucket list item for me, so hopefully a trip to Melbourne will happen in 2024 for us.

Favourite exercise

What are your favorite physical activities or exercises?

My favourite exercise by far is weight training. I started doing weights when I was 18 and have trained either 3 or 4 days a week since then.

I love the feeling of the workout pump and how you feel the rest of the week. My gym sessions usually last about 30 minutes but I feel the results the other 160 plus hours of the week.

I started weights to strengthen my muscles to support my joints when I had Rheumatoid Arthritis. But before long I realised it helped me get stronger, be more flexible and kept my muscles toned.

Weight training has become such a big part of my life that I can see myself doing it for the rest of my days on earth.